Archive | March 2013

How to put the “fork” down: Five tips to control overeating.

Do you find yourself eating a lot when you’re stressed?
Do you find yourself hiding food in strange places just to go back and eat later?
Do you eat alone due to embarrassment shame or fear?
Or do you realise you eat faster than normal?
Overeating is usually directed at coping with stress or emotional problems. But it could lead to other problems like diabetes, high colesterol, hypertension, heart disease, stroke and kidney disease.
Research shows that a compulsive overeater can consume 5,000 to 60,000 calories in a day.
As earlier stated, overeating is usually due to an underlying deeper issue such as anxiety, depression, low-self esteem or loneliness). An individual then tries to deal with the issue by consuming lots of food in order to push down the issue.
Here are 5 Self-help tips that can assist you in controlling and coping with emotions and stress in a positive way.
Step 1: Understand what overeating is
we have been able to establish this from the introduction. By knowing more about what you’re facing, you can learn to move to the next step of help.

Step 2: know what makes you overeat.
Do you overeat when you’re under stress? Or when you are alone? Or Do you find yourself overeating when you visit a friend or family member?
Take time to discover what triggers it. Take note and study your self.

Step 3: Make a decision to change
The most important part is being aware that overeating is a problem and then accepting it. You need to learn to take a step so that seeking will help become easy for you.

Step 4: Have a confidant
Overeating could make you feel embarrassed. However, “overeating” is not the problem in the real sense, the main problem is what makes you overeat at that time?
Being able to answer this question would give you the confidence to discuss with someone you can trust. Workstress, maritatl stress, emotional breakdown or anxiety could trigger overeating. Learn to talk to people you can trust. Having someone to talk to will go a long way in helping you heal.

Step 5: Join a self-help group
There are online self-help groups where you can share your stories and find others who are going through the same thing as you.
Don’t feel bad, overeating doesn’t make you less a good person, it simply means you’re going through something at that particular time.
Seeking help is a way out.
Supersoullifters is an avenue to ventilate your mind and share your experience. We are here to help you and to lift your spirit.
Feel free to share your experience or that of a close friend or family on the “comment arena”. That is a step to healing.
We love you.
Soremekun Eniola,
Mental Health Educator of Supersoullifters

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All I could see was “blurry”, eyes smoky, mind in disarray. A heavy heart, a teary eyes, hands shaking(Depression)…lips dark(substance abuse)!
Total confusion, loss of hope, lack of trust in anything or anyone. Turned to be a junkie or a druggie(Drug addiction)! Felt cheap jumping from Him to Him(sexual addiction). Repeated thoughts that got me scared(Obsessive-compulsive disorder). A transition from low to high(Bipolar disorder). Fear of something, nothing and anything(PHOBIA).
All in the mind!
Mental health has been left in the dark for so many years. We have decided not to pay so much attention to it.
In African countries, mental health issues often come last on the list of the policy makers. This is because most of its countries are characterized by low income, high prevalence of communicable diseases and malnutrition, low life experience and poorly staffed services.
Morbidity and disablement due to mental illness receive very little attention from the government.
Most African countries have NO mental health policies or programs or action plans. Most African countries also lack a reliable information system which prevents people from being aware.
People of Africa have been made to hold on to a judgement of stigmatization to any form of mental illness.
No one’s life is clean. We ALL are psychological beings trying to figure out life, we ALL experience challenging events in life. We all need some help.
There is NO crime in letting your heart out or sharing with someone what you are going through.
Moreso, educating people about the various disorders as well as the preventive measures and self-help tips will go a long way in healing your heart.
I have my story, you have your story that has made us mentally broken one way or the other.
We can’t continue to pretend everything is fine all the time when deep down behind those “sharp haircuts” and attractive faces filled with makeup WE are suffering.
Supersoullifters is here to bring back the lost souls, help those in need of encouragement, assist the shattered mind and to put smiles on the faces of those who have lost the essence of living.
Soremekun Eniola
Mental Health Educator for Supersoullifter

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